Monthly Archives: December 2013

In One Year Alone Ohio Right To Life

Dear Friend,

Thanks to your faithful support, in just this year alone, Ohio Right to Life has been blessed to see historic pro-life success in the state of Ohio!

In 2013, Ohio Right to Life saw 5 pro-life laws passed to hold the abortion industry accountable and to better protect mothers and children from the harms of a self-serving and deadly industry. These pro-life laws include defunding Planned Parenthood, creating a funding stream for our pregnancy centers, banning public hospitals from contracting with abortion clinics, and our heartbeat informed consent act.

Additionally, Ohio Right to Life rejoices at the closure of FOUR abortion clinics in just this year, and the pending closure of TWO more clinics! These closures have brought statewide and national attention to the success of Ohio Right to Life’s pro-life mission and strategy. Yet, we know that none of these wonderful pro-life successes would have come to fruition without your prayers and generous aid.

 
We can confidently say that through your steadfast commitment, we are successfully bringing to life our shared ideals in Ohio. At Ohio Right to Life, we are proud to be striving for a better future for every human person, born and unborn. With your support we know we can continue to achieve it!

Columbus Dispatch – Adoption Legislation

Columbus Dispatch – Adoption

I would like to share this story with you from today’s front page of the Columbus Dispatch regarding adoption legislation that our pro-life Governor signed yesterday allowing adult adoptees to access their records in Ohio.  Ohio proudly supported this bill as it will allow individuals adopted between 1964 through 1996 to access vital personal records, while still allowing birth parents to remain in anonymity.

With adoption being an immediate primary focus of Ohio Right to Life, it is our goal to pass HB 307 right after the New Year. HB 307 is our comprehensive adoption reform legislation to make adoptions less expensive, less bureaucratic and more efficient for families in Ohio. We have great leadership and bi-partisan support for HB 307.

Thank you again for all that you do to serve the cause for LIFE in Ohio. We are blessed to be fighting this fight with you.

Merry Christmas!

http://www.dispatch.com/content/stories/local/2013/12/20/with-law-all-adoptees-get-access-to-records.html

With law, all Ohio adoptees get access to records
By  Catherine Candisky <mailto:ccandisky@dispatch.com>
The Columbus Dispatch Friday December 20, 2013 6:10 AM

For decades, adoptees and their supporters have fought for access to their birth records.
Like-minded lawmakers have introduced numerous bills in the General Assembly over the years, but all were doomed by opposition from anti-abortion forces, including the influential Ohio Right to Life. Those groups feared it would promote abortion because fewer women would opt for adoption if their identities weren’t kept private.
But yesterday, Mike Gonidakis, executive director of Ohio Right to Life and the father of two adopted children, was among those celebrating as Gov. John Kasich signed into law a bill giving an estimated 400,000 adult adoptees access to their original birth certificates.
“Times have changed so much,” Gonidakis said. “Now there is the Internet and Google, and you can find out all sorts of things about people in 10 minutes.”
Senate Bill 23, approved unanimously by the Senate and by a 91-2 vote in the House, will allow those adopted between January 1964 and September 1996 to obtain their adoption files from the Ohio Department of Health’s Bureau of Vital Statistics, just like those adopted before and after those dates can.
“This was the seventh bill in 25 years,” said Betsie Norris, executive director of the Adoption Network Cleveland.
“I’m still in the ‘you’ve-got-to-pinch-me’ phase. I kept waiting for the other shoe to drop.”
Ohio Right to Life’s support was the tipping point in the Republican-controlled General Assembly, she said.
“It was huge,” Norris said. “They took out a lot of the concerns. I never saw it as an abortion issue, but because they had opposed it in the past made it a hot potato.”
Right to Life had opposed such legislation for 40 years, long before Gonidakis joined the organization. When adoption supporters came to him a year ago to encourage the organization to reconsider, he said he couldn’t think of a good reason to continue opposing the bill. He spoke to his board members and they agreed.
“It’s become a non-issue, and it’s just the right thing to do,” he said.
It also created one of those rare times that abortion foes found themselves on the same side as abortion-rights supporters such as NARAL Pro-Choice Ohio. The two groups did not coordinate their efforts, but both testified at legislative hearings in favor of the bill.
“Politics makes strange bedfellows at times,” Gonidakis said.
Under the new law, records will be available starting in March 2015. There will be a one-year waiting period after the bill becomes law in 90 days to give parents an opportunity to request that their names be redacted from the birth certificates given to the adoptees. Those who do so still must give detailed medical histories that will be available to the adoptees.
The bill also closes a perplexing gap in Ohio law for adoptees born from 1964 to 1996 who have been caught between two laws.
Original birth certificates in Ohio adoptions before 1964 already are available to adult adoptees. In September 1996, the law was changed to allow those adopted from that date forward access to their birth certificates upon reaching age 21, unless the birth parent asked not to be identified.
Rep. Dorothy Pelanda, R-Marysville, the sponsor of the House version of the bill, said Right to Life’s support and an amendment to the bill giving birth mothers the opportunity to have their names redacted were key to the bill’s passage.
“We’ve worked so tirelessly for 25 years. I was very emotional” at the bill signing, she said. “ I have been a family lawyer for 31 years, having represented both birth mothers and adoptees, and our youngest child is adopted, and I know how important that document is to her.”
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Laura Beth Kirsop
Director of Communications
Ohio Right to Life
(614) 547-0099 ex. 309
http://www.ohiolife.org

Sen. Roberts Introduces Abortion Insurance Disclosure Bill

NRL News Today
December 20, 2013   AbortionLegislation

Sen. Roberts Introduces Abortion Insurance Disclosure Bill

By Susan T. Muskett, J.D., Senior Legislative Counsel

Sen. Pat Roberts

Sen. Pat Roberts

On Wednesday of this week, Sen. Pat Roberts (R-KS) introduced the Senate version of the Abortion Insurance Full Disclosure Act. S. 1848 is the Senate companion to the bill introduced in the House by Congressman Chris Smith (R-NJ), H.R. 3279. The National Right to Life Committee strongly supports this legislation.

The Abortion Insurance Full Disclosure Act would require every health plan offered on an ObamaCare insurance exchange to disclose any coverage of abortion in the plan’s marketing and advertising materials. It also requires insurers to disclose the cost of the “abortion surcharge,” which is the defined monthly charge for elective abortion coverage that every enrollee in an abortion-covering Exchange plan must pay. This abortion surcharge is not optional – every enrollee in the plan must pay it, including families that have moral objections to abortion and/or that contain no females of reproductive age.

Many consumers are having great difficulty determining which plans cover abortion on the ObamaCare Exchanges. And even after they enroll, many likely won’t even know they are paying for abortion coverage. That would not be the case if the ObamaCare statute was being enforced as written. That’s because ObamaCare requires that Exchange plans that cover abortion must collect a separate payment from enrollees for the abortion coverage and deposit it into a separate account to be used to pay for elective abortions. The plan must also collect a second separate payment for all other services. Federal premium subsidies and cost-sharing would not be placed in the abortion account. This was a key part of the “deal” on ObamaCare that former Senator Ben Nelson of Nebraska negotiated when Senate Majority Leader Reid badly needed his vote for Senate passage of ObamaCare back in December 2009.

By paying a separate payment for the abortion services, enrollees would become aware of the plan’s abortion coverage, as well as the abortion surcharge. But now the Obama Administration is flouting the two payments statutory requirement. By flouting this statutory requirement, but continuing to segregate premium money into a special fund designated for elective abortions, many enrollees likely won’t even know they are paying for abortion coverage; the “abortion surcharge” becomes a hidden fee for which the enrollee is unawares; and the cost of the abortion surcharge remains hidden. For more information on this, see Bait-and-Switch: The Obama Administration’s Flouting of Key Part of Nelson ‘Deal’ on ObamaCare.”

In introducing the legislation, Sen. Roberts said, “Americans have a right to know if a plan they are purchasing covers abortion. Millions of pro-life Americans oppose the use of their money to cover abortion services . . . We need transparency.

Read More: 

http://www.nationalrighttolifenews.org/news/2013/12/sen-roberts-introduces-abortion-insurance-disclosure-bill

Former Abortionist: “I Couldn’t Look At Those Little Bodies Again”

NRL News Today
December 20, 2013   AbortionAbortionist

Former abortionist: “I couldn’t look at those little bodies again”

By Sarah Terzo

Halpernquote“Eclipse of Reason” is a graphic and deeply disturbing documentary put together by the late Dr. Bernard Nathanson, former abortionist turned pro-lifer who also produced the movie “The Silent Scream.”

“Eclipse of Reason” shows a second trimester unborn baby being torn apart in a D&E abortion. The movie was made some time ago, in the 1980s, and when watching it, it is easy to feel sorrow at the fact that the same procedure so well documented in “Eclipse of Reason” is still taking place today, in many abortion clinics throughout the country.

Along with the footage of the aborted baby, several former abortion providers are shown on the video. The one quoted most extensively is Dr. Arnold Halpern.

Dr. Halpern is identified as a former director of the Planned Parenthood clinic. In the video, he first explains what his view had been on when a “fetus” becomes a “baby.”

“…I never personally considered a fetus a real baby until 20 weeks of gestation when one could hear the fetal heart tones and a woman feel movement. Now somewhere along the line I was apprised or thought I was apprised that the fetus was not a human being until it arrived to the point where women could feel that baby move. As we’ve gone from 1982 to 1986 and into the late 1980s we realize that the fetus really is a child and that it really is moving, and that the heart beat is really beating by the use of ultrasound and modern techniques of detecting the fetus.…

The sophisticated equipment we have today can detect fetal heartbeat very early in pregnancy. At http://www.ehd.org/movies.php?mov_id=21 you can see a video of a baby’s heart beating at just four weeks after conception. The heart actually starts beating at 21 days. Dr. Halpern goes on:

“On one day I walked to the abortion clinic with 10 or 12 or 13 women waiting and I realized I cannot do any more abortions. I felt uncomfortable doing it, I felt disgusted at myself. I realized now that I’d started doing second trimester abortions and not only did I see a little tissue coming out, I saw fetal parts, I saw babies coming out, and I felt that I was so uncomfortable at this point that I could not continue and I walked out of the clinic and left that clinic without doing the abortions and never entered the abortion clinic again.

“I had finally got to a point where I couldn’t look at those little bodies again.”

Seeing the body parts of older unborn babies was what shook this doctor and made him reconsider. Dr. Halpern went on:

“Now I recognize that there is no difference between a first-trimester abortion, a second trimester abortion, or a third trimester abortion, or even infanticide. It’s the same human being in different stages of development.

“We have gone into a noble profession to be healers, and we lose sight of what we were called to do when we get into the killing business.”

Read More:

http://www.nationalrighttolifenews.org/news/2013/12/former-abortionist-i-couldnt-look-at-those-little-bodies-again

What Christmas Says About Human Life And Dignity

NRL News Today
 
December 20, 2013   Pro-Lifers

What Christmas says about human life and dignity

 By Paul Stark

NativityscenereChristians use the Christmas holiday to remember and celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ. This event (apart from everything else it entails) provides a number of insights about human life and dignity.

1. Each of us was once an unborn child. The Incarnation—the coming into the world of Christ—did not happen in the manger. It happened some nine months earlier. This is what the facts of human embryology and developmental biology tell us, and it is what the scriptural accounts affirm.

Mary is said to be “with child” (Matthew 1:18) upon Jesus being “conceived … from the Holy Spirit” (Matthew 1:20). Earlier, Mary is told she will “conceive in [her] womb … a son, [to be named] Jesus” (Luke 1:31), who even before birth is called a “child … [who] will be called holy—the Son of God” (Luke 1:35). Luke 1:41-44 recounts that the unborn John the Baptist (who was probably in his sixth month) “leaped for joy” in his mother’s womb when he entered the presence of the unborn Jesus (who was probably a very young embryo at the time).

Jesus began his earthly existence as an embryo and fetus. So did all of us.

2. The weak and vulnerable matter just as much as the strong and independent. God chose to enter the world in the most vulnerable condition possible: as an embryo, and then a fetus, and then a newborn baby lying in a manger. This is startling, and it turns ancient “might makes right” morality on its head. It suggests that human dignity is not determined by age, size, power or independence.

3. Motherhood is enormously honorable. Mary, the mother of Jesus, was utterly important, admirable and deserving of great honor. All mothers are important and deserving of honor.

4. Human life is extraordinarily valuable. Christmas is part of God’s larger plan to rescue humanity because He loves us (John 3:16). Jesus was born so that we might live. From this Christian perspective, God considers human life to be immensely precious, and worth saving at tremendous cost. “Christian belief in the Incarnation is thus inseparable from belief in the objective, and even transcendent, value of the human race as a whole, and of each human person as an individual,” writes Carson Holloway.

Read More:

http://www.nationalrighttolifenews.org/news/2013/12/what-christmas-says-about-human-life-and-dignity/

Abortion Insurance Full Disclosure Act

Dear Pro-Life Friend,
Lies, lies, and more lies.
That’s the only way to accurately describe the way that the Obama Administration has handled the issue of abortion funding in Obamacare since the very beginning.
[Note: I know this is a busy week as SBA List members prepare for Christmas. If you don’t have time to read the entire message, take just 30 seconds to contact your elected officials in Washington and demand that they pass the Abortion Insurance Full Disclosure Act.]
The latest lie came last week, when HHS Secretary Kathleen Sebelius claimed before a House panel that if consumers wanted to know which plans cover abortion under Obamacare, all they had to do was check the summary and benefits section of each plan on Healthcare.gov.
She said this after promising over a month ago to the same House panel that she would provide them with a list of plans that do not cover abortion.

HHS Secretary Kathleen Sebelius didn’t keep her promise, and then she lied to cover it up.
Her blatant lie is proven by a report released this week by the Charlotte Lozier Institute, our education and research arm, which concluded:

“…clear statements of coverage of elective abortion via the Summary of Benefits and Coverage and other plan documents are not the rule. If anything, they are the exception.”
Pro-life Members of Congress have had enough of Kathleen Sebelius’s lies, which is why Rep. Chris Smith (R-NJ) and Sen. Pat Roberts (R-KS) have introduced the “Abortion Insurance Full Disclosure Act.”
This legislation does two very simple things:
  • Requires the Obamacare exchanges to prominently disclose if an insurance plan covers abortions
  • Requires the disclosure of the amount of the “abortion fee,” a surcharge required under Obamacare for plans that include abortion
Pro-Life Friend, tell your elected officials you’ve had enough with the lies… is transparency too much to ask?
And remember, your SBA List will not stop fighting this terrible pro-abortion law. We’ve been fighting it from the start, and we are determined as ever to stop it.
For Life,
Billy Valentine
Director of Policy and Programs
Susan B. Anthony List
PS: Don’t forget to contact your elected officials in Washington right now and demand that they pass the Abortion Insurance Full Disclosure Act, sponsored by Rep. Chris Smith (R-NJ) in the House and Sen. Pat Roberts (R-KS) in the Senate. Then, forward this message to as many of your pro-life friends as possible so they can take action too.

Former 40 Days For Life Leader Launches National Program To Train And Support Sidewalk Counselors

Former 40 Days for Life leader launches national program to train and support sidewalk counselors

BY KIRSTEN ANDERSEN

  • Wed Dec 18, 2013 13:47 EST

DALLAS, TX, December 18, 2013 (LifeSiteNews.com) – They’re called sidewalk counselors: the pro-life activists who pray, protest and counsel women outside abortion clinics.  They’re often the last line of defense between a frightened mother and baby and the abortionist, and they’re so effective that the abortion lobby and pro-abortion politicians have targeted them relentlessly with laws aimed at keeping them far away from abortion facilities and the women who visit them.

For those who consider joining their ranks, making the leap from concerned citizen to the front lines of pro-life activism can be intimidating.  Seeing news reports about pro-lifers being arrestedfined, or even subjected to violence outside abortion clinics can make sidewalk counseling a scary prospect.

A new venture called Sidewalk Advocates for Life hopes to fix that, by giving curious would-be sidewalk counselors a one-stop “shop” for information, training and legal support.

Sidewalk Advocates for Life was launched Monday during the “A New Dawn” pro-life webcast.  The program is being headed up by Lauren Muzyka, an attorney, sidewalk counselor and former campaign strategist for 40 Days for Life who says she was inspired to launch the effort by the many people she met during prayer vigils who said they longed to speak directly to mothers in danger of aborting their babies, but didn’t know how.

“In past national pro-life work, serving people on the front lines, peacefully praying at the abortion center, I would often hear that they were struggling in how to properly reach out in love to mothers and fathers entering the abortion facility,” Muzyka told LifeSiteNews.  “Some had training, but didn’t have support, tools or technology to sustain a sidewalk counseling program in their local community.  As a trained sidewalk counselor myself – and someone who had done it full-time at one point – this moved my heart.”

Muzyka said it was the experience of meeting a little girl last spring whose mother had chosen to give birth to her after being sidewalk counseled by Muzyka six years ago that finally pushed her over the edge to start Sidewalk Advocates for Life. “What a life-changing moment that was for me!” Muzyka told LSN.  “I realized soon after that I needed to do everything possible to help others learn this peaceful, loving, woman-oriented method of helping mothers choose life, while also providing the necessary tools and support to keep them going long-term.”

Part of that will be using her legal expertise to train other sidewalk counselors to stay on the right side of the Byzantine restrictions many municipalities have enacted to infringe their free speech rights.

“I am a licensed attorney in Texas, so I have working knowledge of how to help navigate basic first amendment issues on the sidewalk,” Muzyka explained.  “If something rises to the level of being actionable, we are well-networked with Christian attorneys all over the United States who can provide legal resources, pro bono. … In my past work with 40 Days for Life National, it was [part of] my job to line up legal resources for local campaigns when needed, so I have first-hand experience doing this,” she added.

Those who are interested in starting a network of sidewalk counselors in their area, or making a current group more effective, can apply for training and membership in Sidewalk Advocates for Life on a quarterly basis.  Those who get accepted will be given tools, training and technology to organize an effective sidewalk counseling team. For example, members get exclusive access to flyer and press release templates, a training manual and DVD, inclusion in the group’s website directory, and access to a team of advisors.

Muzyka says she isn’t looking to replace currently effective groups, but to work with them and expand their reach so that every woman seeking an abortion will first have access to a trained, quality sidewalk advocate for life.

“In short, we hope to see every abortion facility in the United States covered with at least two peaceful, loving and effective sidewalk advocates or counselors every hour that it is open,” Muzyka told LifeSiteNews.  “While there are some communities that already have training, local infrastructure and support to sustain their current program, there are many local communities that do not – so, if we can be a blessing to those desperately needing this, then we are honored to serve!  We hope to fill the gap!

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http://www.lifesitenews.com/news/former-40-days-for-life-leader-launches-national-program-to-train-and-suppo

Make No Mistake About It: ‘Emergency Contraception’ Can Cause Abortion

Make no mistake about it: ‘emergency contraception’ can cause abortion

December 10, 2013 (Public Discourse) – Linda Greenhouse was, for many years, the New York Times’Supreme Court reporter. In a guest column published on November 27, she delivered a Thanksgiving gift to the justices, one that would solve—she asserted—the most contentious of their cases this term, those involving the HHS “contraception” mandate. Greenhouse wrote:

The religiously committed owners of the companies whose cases the court will decide—Hobby Lobby employs 13,000 people in its 500-store chain—say they object not to all birth control but only to the methods they believe act after fertilization to prevent a fertilized egg from implanting and continuing to develop. This belief is incorrect, as a brief filed by a coalition of leading medical authorities demonstrates; although there was once some confusion on this point, the disputed hormonal methods are now understood to prevent fertilization from occurring in the first place.

About the medical facts, Greenhouse and the medical brief written by pro-abortion physicians that she cites are certainly wrong. Hobby Lobby and the other mandate complainants are right: several of the required “contraceptives” can work by killing an embryo before or after implantation, just as they assert in court papers. Perhaps because she is relying on the spin involved in the pro-abortion brief, Greenhouse is so utterly confused about the basics of human reproduction that she quite literally does not know what she is talking about.

Let’s start with her confusion, and work our way up to her grossly mistaken conclusions.

Misleading Terms and False Claims

Greenhouse refers to the potential fate of a “fertilized egg.” There is no such thing. Biologically, when a human sperm cell penetrates a human egg cell, which happens within twenty-four hours after ovulation, the membranes of the sperm cell and egg cell fuse. At the moment of membrane fusion, which is called “fertilization,” the sperm cell ceases to exist, as does the egg cell. There is, in other words, no egg left which could be described as “fertilized.”

What does exist is a one-celled embryo called a “zygote.” A zygote has all the characteristics of a unique human organism: it can direct its own development, can repair itself, has specialized parts that work together for the continued existence of the embryo, and—given nourishment and the right environment—can accomplish its own self-directed growth. These are the same criteria that characterize any human organism.

Prior to the 1960s, the word “conception” was understood to be a lay term for “fertilization.” Ordinary people knew that “pregnancy” began at “conception.” That changed when “contraceptive” drugs and devices became generally available. At that time, the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists arbitrarily and unilaterally defined “conception” to mean “implantation,” which is defined as the time when an embryo becomes attached to the lining of the uterus.

This definition change had two distinct advantages for manufacturers. The first was that the death of an embryo before implantation could be classified as a “contraceptive” act, because the embryo’s demise occurred before “pregnancy.” The second was that these new embryocidal actions could then be distinguished from “abortion,” because the definition of “abortion” is “the deliberate termination of a pregnancy.”

The use of the terms “fertilized egg” and “conception” obscures the reality that fertilization can anddoes take place while using certain types of drugs and devices labeled as “contraceptives.” From the instant when fertilization happens, a new human life exists. That new human being is called an embryo.

Although clouded by confused terminology, Greenhouse’s central claim is that hormonal contraceptives involved in the HHS mandate—which include Ella (ulipristal) and levonorgestrel IUDs such as Mirena— work only (she claims) to “prevent fertilization from occurring in the first place.” However, Greenhouse is clearly wrong to claim that this is the only mechanism at work with these two contraceptives. Mirena and Ella are both FDA-approved hormonal contraceptives. And both drugs do sometimes work by suppressing ovulation and thereby forestalling the possibility of fertilization. But not nearly always, as Greenhouse maintains.

How Do Hormonal IUDs Work?

Levonorgestrel IUDs such as Mirena may suppress some egg release when first inserted. But within a few years after a woman begins using it, egg release happens almost as often in IUD users as it does in women who are not contracepting at all. Yet in these cases the IUD still prevents “pregnancy.” How does this occur?

The answer about the IUD is no scientific or medical mystery. The embryocidal mechanism of action of IUDs has been known for decades. A careful examination of the recent scientific literature demonstrates that:

– IUDs do not effectively prevent ovulation. Women release eggs only a little less often than normal, even on the LNG IUD. (See academic studies hereherehere, and here.)

– The levonorgestrel IUD can interfere with a woman’s ability to make progesterone, which in turn can lead to an endometrium unable to accept an implantation or unable to sustain an embryo that has implanted. (See this study.)

– Although IUDs can decrease the absolute number of sperm that reach the fallopian tubes, sperm are still capable of reaching the fallopian tube even when copper and levonorgestrel IUDs are in use. Sperm have been directly observed and recovered from the fallopian tubes of women using IUDs. (See studies herehere, and here.)

Fertilization does take place in some IUD users. Embryos have been directly recovered from the fallopian tubes of IUD users. The documented pregnancy rate of approximately 1 percent also proves that embryos can be created during the use of the IUD. (See studies here and here.)

– Embryos created during the use of copper IUDs develop abnormally. This may be due to toxic effects of the copper on sperm, on the egg, or directly on the embryo. (See studies hereherehere, and here.)

– The IUD changes the lining of the uterus, which makes implantation difficult. This is one of the most widely documented mechanisms of action of both copper IUDs and progestin IUDs. (See studies here,hereherehereherehereherehere, and here.)

IUDs have been used as “emergency contraception” and are recommended for use in situations where ovulation has already occurred and the woman is late in her cycle. A 2013 review articleillustrates this point:

Therefore, copper IUDs can be inserted up to 5 days after ovulation to prevent pregnancy. Thus, if a woman had unprotected intercourse three days before ovulation occurred in that cycle, the IUD could prevent pregnancy if inserted up to 8 days after intercourse.

IUDs placed after day 24—when implantation has already taken place—are “effective” in preventing a positive pregnancy test. That effectiveness must by definition involve embryocidal actions, because embryos are created on day 12-14 of a woman’s cycle. Even by ACOG definitions of pregnancy, the termination of a pregnancy after implantation constitutes an abortion.

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http://www.lifesitenews.com/news/make-no-mistake-about-it-emergency-contraception-can-cause-abortion

‘God Is Calling Men To Rise Up’: How A Post-Abortive Dad Is Helping Save Thousands From Abortion

‘God is calling men to rise up’: How a post-abortive dad is helping save thousands from abortion

BY JOHN JALSEVAC

December 17, 13 (LifeSiteNews.com) – It’s been over 20 years since the abortion, but Jeff Bradford still can’t talk about it without weeping.

Even he seems surprised by this, given that for 15 of those 20 years, he hardly ever gave a thought to that day at the Planned Parenthood clinic, assuming that he and his wife had “put it behind” them.

The Bradford family today.

But then their marriage went through a rough spot, and they decided to seek counseling. And that’s where it all came out into the open.

“We just knew something wasn’t right,” Jeff told LifeSiteNews.com during a recent telephone interview. “We couldn’t put our finger on it. But we would close that door [during counseling] and my wife would cry uncontrollably.”

Jeff was taken aback by his wife’s emotion, and at first thought that perhaps there was abuse in her background that he didn’t know about.

“But as we unpeeled that onion, there was this deep abandonment, and roots of bitterness that had grown over the years,” he said. “And it all really came down to this decision [to have the abortion].” 

‘No one was standing in the gap’

Jeff and his wife Tricia were both in their early 20s and mere months away from getting married in early 1993 when they found out that Tricia was pregnant. Afraid of embarrassing their families, they made an appointment at Planned Parenthood.

Jeff remained in the waiting room. Of that day, all he has are “snapshots” from the clinic. “I think I’ve tried to put it out of my mind,” he says. “It was fairly quick, in and out, and we didn’t talk. We didn’t talk about it…not for 15 years.” 

But during those 15 years the abortion festered. And it is only in retrospect that Jeff can see how much the abortion contributed to many of the problems that quietly plagued their relationship, including their very difficult first year of marriage.

“That experience and that pain, and that one decision 20 years ago, really had so many underlying consequences in our lives, many that we didn’t even realize, that were just deep roots,” he says.

For Tricia, he says, it all came down to feelings “that she wasn’t protected.” Women “are created for life,” he says. But while his wife “would do anything” for the couple’s other four children, “in this instant, 20 years earlier, there was no one standing in the gap.”

After a pause, he adds quietly, “and especially me.”

‘I began to become enraged’

With the abortion out in the open, Jeff and Tricia were able to begin healing. And for the first time, he says, despite their involvement in Christian ministry after a re-conversion several years into their marriage, they finally “began to understand grace and compassion and forgiveness.”

But even still, Jeff hadn’t fully come to terms with the full reality of what abortion was. That all changed when he met Brian Fisher, the COO of a marketing firm that had hired Jeff, who was running his own consulting business, to do some work for them. One day, after they had gotten to know one another, Brian handed Jeff a card for his other “business” – the fledgling pro-life organization Online for Life.

Jeff Bradford

Jeff admits – “embarrassingly” – that when Brian first told him about his pro-life work, his first thought was, “are these the guys that are blowing up clinics?”

That was the media that had done such a good job for many people who aren’t involved in this, thinking that pro-life people are some radical group,” he says.

But he took the business card and set it on his nightstand, next to where he charges his phone. There it languished for several weeks.

Finally, however, Jeff started researching how Online for Life was saving babies from abortion using cutting edge Internet marketing techniques. “And it was really the first time in my life that I began to really understand the devastation of abortion,” he says. “I had really hidden from it. God began to really drop the scales from my eyes, and I saw what abortion was.”

Then, he says, “I began to become enraged that as Christians that we were aborting 3500 of our children every day.”

Soon thereafter, Jeff began to volunteer for Online for Life, putting his extensive experience in business to work saving lives. Then, last year, “kicking and screaming,” he accepted a full-time position as Vice President for Development for Online for Life, completing his transition to becoming a full-time pro-life activist.

For him, the work of Online for Life – which, to date, has been directly involved in saving 1,368 babies from abortion – is quite simply “compassion and intervention” – a way to reach lost men and women, like he and his wife were 20 years ago.

“It’s exactly what I would have needed and wanted,” he says, “for somebody to have just stood by me and said, ‘This is a life. You can do this. You have support and help. This is your child.’ We would have made a much different decision.”

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Minnesota Man Convicted In Murders Of Wife And Their Unborn Child

NRL News Today
December 17, 2013   Crime

Minnesota man convicted in murders of wife and their unborn child

By Dave Andrusko

Roger Holland

Roger Holland

When last we wrote about Roger Holland, the Apple Valley, Minnesota man stood accused of an incredible brutal crime: strangling his pregnant wife at their town house and trying to make it look as if Margorie Holland died when she accidentally fell down a staircase. Her 15-week-old unborn baby also died last March.

As we noted at the time, in a motion, his attorney, Marsh Halberg, tried a “novel” and wholly unpersuasive argument: that “The death of the fetus was an abortion, not a murder, and the only person whose rights that such an act could have violated — the mother — already was dead,” according to the St. Paul Pioneer Press’s Marino Eccher.

Having not attended the trial, I don’t know if Halberg ever floated that absurd theory based, bizarre as it sounds, on the constitutional right to equal protection. *

But early Tuesday morning, after ten hours of deliberation a jury convicted Holland on all counts: two first-degree premeditated murder charges and two of second-degree intentional murder, according to the Dakota County Attorney’s Office, the (Minneapolis) Star-Tribune reported.

“We are pleased to have brought Roger Holland to justice for this senseless and violent crime that took the lives of Margorie Holland and her unborn child,” Dakota County Attorney James Backstrom said in a statement. “Our deep sympathy is extended to the family and friends of Marjorie Holland for their great loss.”

Prosecutor Phil Prokopowicz told the jury in his closing argument that “It is not easy to strangle someone to death,” according to the story written by the Star-Tribune’s Pat Pheifer. “Think of the intensity of that moment, whatever he used to squeeze, squeeze, squeeze.”

However Mrs. Holland “fought,” Prokopowicz said. “She fought for her life and that of her unborn child.”

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